We are afraid of the wrong things.

Being afraid of the wrong thing is possibly only something that can be differentiated per person. Your fears and my fears are different and I may feel that you don’t need to fear something, but I do not know your background. Our thinking, things we’ve heard and our experiences lead us to be afraid of things.

Some suffer from Vestiphobia, the intense fear of clothes or clothing. Do you think that’s as ridiculous as I do? You may say that wasting your time fearing clothes is wrong, but who knows what made the person afraid of clothes scared of clothes. Just saying…Ok I think you get my point. (See an A-Z list of phobia’s HERE.)

Although saying things are wrong to fear can depend from person to person, our fears can still be controlled and prevented from coming true.

Did you ever hear of the Law of Attraction? I’m not talking about how you and your boyfriend met, I’m talking about how the vibrations that you send out to the rest of the world allow certain things to reach you and become part of your life.

The Law of Attraction can work both positively and negatively and is based on the orientation of our thoughts. The Secret, once a book now a documentary too, also speaks about how what you focus your thoughts on will guide your actions and become your reality. The Secret guides you to get what you want out of the Law of Attraction, but doesn’t teach you the flip side.


Embrace your positive thoughts!

Here’s the flip side. By being afraid of things we are allowing them to enter our lives, because we constantly keep them in our thoughts. By allowing your vibrations to sync with what you fear you let the Law of Attraction work in a negative way.

To be aware and to be afraid are two different things, so rather be aware of possible dangers than to be continuously afraid and draw them to you. Positively orientating your thoughts and imagining things getting better and better is certainly the way to go.


4 responses to “We are afraid of the wrong things.

  1. Ah the secret to life… I try my best to attract positive things, but sometimes you cant help but think negatively.

  2. Wow, this very interesting. I never knew that this is actually what the Law of Attraction is about, but it totally makes sense. There are a few sayings regarding this topic like: “Smile and the world smiles with you” or “She lights up a room” or “Her positivity rubs down on people”. I truly believe that if you are optimistic, you will draw better things to your life – even if they just seem better due to your optimism. If we all think negatively, things seem worse than it is, and then more and more “bad” stuff is drawn to our lives. Thank you for the motivation that comes through your blog post. It has inspired me to modify my way of looking at the world and be more aware of things, rather than being afraid of them. Fears can actually rule your world.

  3. nicolefernandes

    i absolutely agree with your blog and that people should definitely try and live a life of optimism. nice angle!

  4. You know sweety it scares me how much alike we really are and yet we are so different!

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